It can be difficult to understand what is right when dating as a Christian. There is so much advice out there that it can feel overwhelming, even when the advice is coming from a fellow Christian.
If you are part of a number of Christian communities, then you would have noticed how diverse the advice that is given out is, even though your faith, Lord and baptism is the same. To help you understand what it means to be dating as a Christian in 2020, then here is some advice you might want to take on board.
- Love God First
The first rule when it comes to dating as a Christian is to love the Lord first. You will never truly fall in love with anyone if you don’t love God the most, and no one will love you truly if they don’t love God more than you. The Lord should capture your heart, mind and soul. If your heart is not fully devoted, your mind distracted, and your soul isn’t secure through faith, then your dating life will not go well.
- The Golden Rule in Dating
After you embrace the first and best commandment, the golden rule in dating is to lean hard on the people you know best, love you most, and will tell you when you’re wrong. This is not the first rule because you should be thinking about God before you make any dream, decision, calling or relationship come true. There are many ways to fall to sin and subtly reject God’s wisdom, so don’t do it.
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Harrison Okafor
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Judith is a believer, a lover of Christ and a Gospel freak person. A passionate gospel blogger and press writer. I work with GospelHitsNaija.net Media, no 1 Gospel music platform.
